@yin_speaks: Growing up is deleting numbers that you know having is not good for you

 Okay so there was this guy we'll just call em "F.E" so me & FE we're messing around with each other for  some time. Not long but long enough for me to catch a few quick feelings. Plus we had a little foolish past in middle school if that helps lol. But anyway, you know when you text people & you can tell by the vibe either they're upset or just don't want to talk to you. Well I guess you can say while me & FE we're talking he kinda gave me that vibe. I mean it was like 

Me: Hey (:

Him: Hey

(Peep he didn't smile back) 

Me: Are you okay

Him: Mhm

Me: I know you aren't but I just want you to know whatever it is I'm here for you

Him: aw thanks 

Me: No problem so what have you been up to

Him: Life 

(This is where I had an epiphany/ grown moment. I just thought to myself, why am I making my life complicated? I'm too grown to be sitting around wondering if he doesn't want to talk to me or if I did something so I said)

Me: Either I'm trippin, you don't want to talk to me, or your just upset. Which one isn't cause I don't want to waste time

Him: I don't want to talk to you

So yeah it stung but then again I thought to myself, well at least this sting doesn't sting as much as if he just kept leading me on then just breeaks my heart. I respect him for THAT because shit at the end of the day not everybody is going to like you, but I don't respect him at the same time because he was kind of leading me on in a sense. Anyway moral of the story is yess you will die of salt for like 10 minutes but at least you aren't dying of a heart break. So what I did was what's in the picture...  Delete the number because it's just a reminder rejection. Hahaha I can't believe I'm telling y'all this whatever

Peace, stay Gold 

One of the many chronicles of #AfricanKidProbs

                      

If you know what it's like to have a foreign parent. Especially from Africa, first off I want to start by saying I feel your pain. From hearing "you're rude", "you need to stay home" , "clean this & clean that" & last but definitely not least the "I will send you back to Africa" lectures. Now when you mix a single mother into the equation of all that it can really be frustrating. So yesterday I hung out with my bestfriends Koisey & Nala and koisey's Bf Charles & I came home at 1 in the morning. The problem w/ my mom is that  her perfect world requires me to sit in the house. & if you know me I CANT DO THAT shit!!!!!! So this morning she woke me up & was like "YOU BETTA GIVE ME YOUA CAH KEYS". Like she trippin.  So right now I'm currently in my room eavesdropping on my older brother talking to my mom In the other room trying to make her understand some things for my sake. 

"I'm a lowkey freak" RANT

I know I've touched on this topic on twitter a couple of times but I continuously see this shit on my TL & it just Erks me ladies! I mean come on now!!!!! We got to get better as the young ladies of this generation! & I know I shouldn't be the one preaching but Gah Damn! let me say it again loud & clear! IF YOU SAY THINGS LIKE THIS ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA SITES

         

You Are not I repeat are not a LOWKEY freak. Why because you just made it highkey by broadcasting it on the internet.

So let me clarify what a lowkey freak is for you. A lowkey freak is a person who acts innocent when it comes to the world of sex except then you get them to bed they turn your ass out! 

 & I get it trust me I do! you might think its cute, (Shiiiii & let's be real we all "try" to be cute for twitter at times) because I mean what guy wouldn't want a lady in street but a freak in the bed lol, but by you saying that it's not cute nor lady like so stop! Thx